Releasing
the Fear of Rejection
Fear of rejection can cause people to give-up before
they have started.
Let's just think about that:
__Suppose there is something
you would really like to do, be, have,
or achieve. Possible examples are endless, you might hope
for a meaningful personal relationship, a new job, to
make an important sale, deal, or business partnership,
a part in a play or music group, or a sports team. Attempting
to gain any one of those (and other) examples requires
us to first take the risk that others might reject us.
That's a fact. However, if we focus on the possibility
of rejection that affects our behaviour, our presentation
of ourself, and sometimes even our voice, smile, or performance
- on the stage or sports field. Worse still, if we allow
the possibility of rejection to dominate our mind then
the consequence is often that we don't even try to approach
the person, telephone the prospect, go to the audition
or try-out for the team.
__But the crazy thing is ... the fear of rejection is
all in the mind (your mind !) anyway. You can choose whether
the fear is large enough to put you off even trying, or
small enough to be insignificant so matter at all. Your
decision affects your outcome !
NOTE: The Fear of rejection (and the extent of that
fear!) is in YOUR mind, NOT the mind of the person you'd
like to take out for a date, the prospective new employer,
major customer, casting director, etc.. ! Therefore: YOU
have control.
Please, use this CD to help you, or even your situation
is specifically one of the following, you
might like to select 'End
Procrastination", "Telephone
Sales", "Powerful
Salesperson", "Confidence",
or "Freedom
from Fears" either as well, or instead.
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